Sober 4 life gentleman seeks sober woman
Phc46
Calistoga, California | Muž Hledám A Žena
Obecné
Křestní jméno
Peter
Hovořím
Angličtina
Sebe bych popsal(a) jako
I am an easy-going sober-for-life gentleman that seeks a casual intimate relationship with a sober woman with like interests.I am college educated (BA in Eng Lit with some grad work). I love theatre arts, music, foreign & classic cinema and nature. I've been married & divorced twice (1st drunk, 2nd sober) but have not had a close female relationship for a while. I am self-employed and have let work dominate my life. Sobriety changed my life radically. I changed from a person of low-self esteem, self critical thinking and constant depression to a man comfortable in his own skin who is optimistic and open minded about life. I was able to excise the "critical parent" that lived in my head and become the curious, self accepting individual I am today.
I seek to find a sober woman who continues to grow emotionally, to want to learn about herself. I seek a relationship based on mutual respect and acceptance of the other as they are. My history with women has been less than satisfactory, largely based on my own inability to be open and honest. I carried a lot of garbage around in my head based on my childhood. I never felt accepted and loved by my Mother and thus developed a modus operandi where I tried to manipulate any relationship with a woman so that the overcome would equal her acceptance and caring for me. That is not who I am today. I try very hard to come into any relationship with a few pre-determined expectations as possible, save for the hope that we will like each other and become friends. In my life as a drunk any problems I experienced were never my fault. I often saw life in a negative way that meant I would always fail. Life was a closed book!
Today my mind and my heart are open, expansive and not restrictive. I take responsibility for my actions, my failures and successes. I love sunrises and sunsets today. I hear the rain on the roof and it makes me smile, it makes my heart glad. Today I don't go to many meetings unless I go with a friend. Don't get me wrong because I never forget that I am just another sober drunk, one step away from losing it all if I forget and take that drink. I have 38 years of sobriety and part of my sober history was being a recovery counselor for 15 years. I'm comfortable in my sobriety today and I still practice the principles I learned early on. If I'm uncomfortable in any setting, I leave. I don't argue or preach sobriety but I wii engage anyone that is truly interested in addiction.
It would be great to meet a sober woman and attend meetings. It would be great to make living sober a part of a new relationship. I hope and pray that happens for me.
I seek to find a sober woman who continues to grow emotionally, to want to learn about herself. I seek a relationship based on mutual respect and acceptance of the other as they are. My history with women has been less than satisfactory, largely based on my own inability to be open and honest. I carried a lot of garbage around in my head based on my childhood. I never felt accepted and loved by my Mother and thus developed a modus operandi where I tried to manipulate any relationship with a woman so that the overcome would equal her acceptance and caring for me. That is not who I am today. I try very hard to come into any relationship with a few pre-determined expectations as possible, save for the hope that we will like each other and become friends. In my life as a drunk any problems I experienced were never my fault. I often saw life in a negative way that meant I would always fail. Life was a closed book!
Today my mind and my heart are open, expansive and not restrictive. I take responsibility for my actions, my failures and successes. I love sunrises and sunsets today. I hear the rain on the roof and it makes me smile, it makes my heart glad. Today I don't go to many meetings unless I go with a friend. Don't get me wrong because I never forget that I am just another sober drunk, one step away from losing it all if I forget and take that drink. I have 38 years of sobriety and part of my sober history was being a recovery counselor for 15 years. I'm comfortable in my sobriety today and I still practice the principles I learned early on. If I'm uncomfortable in any setting, I leave. I don't argue or preach sobriety but I wii engage anyone that is truly interested in addiction.
It would be great to meet a sober woman and attend meetings. It would be great to make living sober a part of a new relationship. I hope and pray that happens for me.
Přihlásit
Střelec
Vzhled a situace
Má postava je
Normální
Má výška je
1,88 m
Barva mých očí
Světle hnědá
Můj původ je
Běloch/běloška
Můj rodinný stav je
Rozveden/a
Mám děti
Ne
Chci děti
Ne
Mou nejlepší částí je
Oči
Barva mých vlasů
Stříbrná
Mám jedno nebo více z uvedených
Pes
Ochotný/ochotná se přestěhovat
Ano
Stav
Má úroveň vzdělání je
Vysokoškolské vzdělání
Můj současný stav zaměstnání je
Osoba samostatně výdělečně činná
Mé zaměření je
Jiné
Název mého zaměstnání je
Rideshare driver
To si vydělám za rok
75,000USD až $99,999USD
Žiji
Sám/sama, S domácími mazlíčky
Doma
Vše je v klidu
Jsem kuřák
Ne
Osobnost
Na střední škole jsem byl/a
Vyvrženec
Mé společenské chování je
Plaché, Opatrné, Přátelská osoba, Flirtující, Otevřené
Mé zájmy a koníčky jsou
Stravování, Rodina, Sportovní, Vzdělávání, Hudba, TV, Filmy, Internet, Divadlo, Cestování, Kempování, Dobrovolnictví
Má představa skvěle stráveného času je
Zůstat doma, Filmy, Relax, Čtení knihy, TV, Jít do muzea
Ideální první rande by bylo
To have a nice lunch and a walk in the park or the beach talking and getting to know and experience each other.
Vždy jsem chtěl/a vyzkoušet
Just being myself with someone new (it's been quite some time since I was on a first date.
Moji přátelé mě popisují jako
Přátelská osoba, V pohodě
Názory
Mé náboženství je
Spirituální, ale ne náboženský
Navštěvuji bohoslužby
Nikdy
Můj životní cíl je
Keep growing, mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Life is short and I don't want to let pass by those desires and feelings I have. I want to give back to life just as so many others have given to me.
Můj smysl humoru je
Suchý / sarkastický, Přátelská osoba, Potrhlý
Chuť
V TV vždy sleduji
Zprávy, Drama, Filmy, Sportovní
Když se dívám na filmy, vždy sleduji
Akční, Science fiction, Komedie, Drama, Animované
Když poslouchám hudbu, pak vždy poslouchám
Rock, Klasické, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Reggae, Folk
Když čtu, tak nejraději čtu
Klasické, Fikce, Historie, Humor, Mysteriózní, Science fiction, Sportovní, Erotické
Má představa zábavy je
Playing card or board games with friends and teasing each other and laughing. Going on a picnic at the beach or in the park and playing frizz bee. Going out for a nice dinner date followed by a great foreign film. Hanging out on a rainy day and having a stimulating discussion with my girlfriend. Going for a drive in the Sonoma County back roads and stopping for a bite at a roadside cafe. Taking a trip to anywhere with a woman I love.
Hledám
Co považuješ za atraktivní?
Důvtip, Koketnost, Spontánnost, Citlivost, Empatii, Humor, Dobrý vzhled, Ohleduplnost, Inteligenci
Co hledáš?
A woman who is curious and expressive. A woman who is comfortable in her own skin and who likes sharing any experiences we create together. A woman who likes to speak her mind about her feelings and desires. A woman who likes her sexuality and enjoys sharing it. A woman who enjoys touching and kissing. A woman who wants to feel sexual joy and pleasure and also enjoys giving the same.
Jaký typ vztahu hledáš?
Přítel, Intimní, Odevzdaný/á