Sober 4 life gentleman seeks sober woman
Phc46
Calistoga, California | Мужчина Ищу Женщину
Базовая информация
Имя
Peter
Говорю на языках:
Английский
Я бы описал(а) себя как
I am an easy-going sober-for-life gentleman that seeks a casual intimate relationship with a sober woman with like interests.I am college educated (BA in Eng Lit with some grad work). I love theatre arts, music, foreign & classic cinema and nature. I've been married & divorced twice (1st drunk, 2nd sober) but have not had a close female relationship for a while. I am self-employed and have let work dominate my life. Sobriety changed my life radically. I changed from a person of low-self esteem, self critical thinking and constant depression to a man comfortable in his own skin who is optimistic and open minded about life. I was able to excise the "critical parent" that lived in my head and become the curious, self accepting individual I am today.
I seek to find a sober woman who continues to grow emotionally, to want to learn about herself. I seek a relationship based on mutual respect and acceptance of the other as they are. My history with women has been less than satisfactory, largely based on my own inability to be open and honest. I carried a lot of garbage around in my head based on my childhood. I never felt accepted and loved by my Mother and thus developed a modus operandi where I tried to manipulate any relationship with a woman so that the overcome would equal her acceptance and caring for me. That is not who I am today. I try very hard to come into any relationship with a few pre-determined expectations as possible, save for the hope that we will like each other and become friends. In my life as a drunk any problems I experienced were never my fault. I often saw life in a negative way that meant I would always fail. Life was a closed book!
Today my mind and my heart are open, expansive and not restrictive. I take responsibility for my actions, my failures and successes. I love sunrises and sunsets today. I hear the rain on the roof and it makes me smile, it makes my heart glad. Today I don't go to many meetings unless I go with a friend. Don't get me wrong because I never forget that I am just another sober drunk, one step away from losing it all if I forget and take that drink. I have 38 years of sobriety and part of my sober history was being a recovery counselor for 15 years. I'm comfortable in my sobriety today and I still practice the principles I learned early on. If I'm uncomfortable in any setting, I leave. I don't argue or preach sobriety but I wii engage anyone that is truly interested in addiction.
It would be great to meet a sober woman and attend meetings. It would be great to make living sober a part of a new relationship. I hope and pray that happens for me.
I seek to find a sober woman who continues to grow emotionally, to want to learn about herself. I seek a relationship based on mutual respect and acceptance of the other as they are. My history with women has been less than satisfactory, largely based on my own inability to be open and honest. I carried a lot of garbage around in my head based on my childhood. I never felt accepted and loved by my Mother and thus developed a modus operandi where I tried to manipulate any relationship with a woman so that the overcome would equal her acceptance and caring for me. That is not who I am today. I try very hard to come into any relationship with a few pre-determined expectations as possible, save for the hope that we will like each other and become friends. In my life as a drunk any problems I experienced were never my fault. I often saw life in a negative way that meant I would always fail. Life was a closed book!
Today my mind and my heart are open, expansive and not restrictive. I take responsibility for my actions, my failures and successes. I love sunrises and sunsets today. I hear the rain on the roof and it makes me smile, it makes my heart glad. Today I don't go to many meetings unless I go with a friend. Don't get me wrong because I never forget that I am just another sober drunk, one step away from losing it all if I forget and take that drink. I have 38 years of sobriety and part of my sober history was being a recovery counselor for 15 years. I'm comfortable in my sobriety today and I still practice the principles I learned early on. If I'm uncomfortable in any setting, I leave. I don't argue or preach sobriety but I wii engage anyone that is truly interested in addiction.
It would be great to meet a sober woman and attend meetings. It would be great to make living sober a part of a new relationship. I hope and pray that happens for me.
Знак зодиака
Стрелец
Внешность и семейное положение
Телосложение
Среднее
Мой рост
187 см
Мои глаза
Карие
Моя этническая принадлежность
Белый европеец/кавказец
Семейное положение
В разводе
У меня есть дети
Нет
Хочу детей
Нет
Привлекательная часть тела
Глаза
Мои волосы
Серебро
Домашние животные
Собака
Хочу переехать
Да
Статус
Образование
Высшее (магистр)
Работа/Учеба:
Работаю на себя
Род занятий
Другое
Род занятий
Rideshare driver
Зарабатываю в год
от $75,000USD до $99,999USD
Живу
Один/одна, С домашними животными
Дома
Все очень спокойно
Отношение к курению
Нет
Характер
В школе я был(а):
Отверженный
Мое социальное поведение
Застенчивое, Наблюдательное, Сама дружелюбность, Флирт, Свободное
Интересы и увлечения:
Ужин, Чтение, Спорт, Учеба, Музыка, ТВ, Фильмы, Интернет, Театр, Путешествия, Кэмпинг, Волонтерство
Мое представление об отлично проведенном времени
Останусь дома, Фильмы, Расслабление, Чтение книг, ТВ, Пойду в музей
Идеально первое свидание
To have a nice lunch and a walk in the park or the beach talking and getting to know and experience each other.
Я всегда хотел попробовать
Just being myself with someone new (it's been quite some time since I was on a first date.
Друзья считают что я:
Сама дружелюбность, Крутой
Взгляды
Моя религия
Не поддерживаю религии
Посещение служб:
Никогда
Моя цель в жизни
Keep growing, mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Life is short and I don't want to let pass by those desires and feelings I have. I want to give back to life just as so many others have given to me.
Мой юмор
Сарказм, Сама дружелюбность, Немного "того"
Вкусы
По телевизору, я всегда смотрю
Новости, Драма, Фильмы, Спорт
Предпочитаемые жанры фильмов:
Экшн, Научная фантастика, Комедии, Драмы, Анимация
Предпочитаемая музыка
Рок, Классика, Блюз, Джаз, Латинская, Нью-эйдж, Регги, Народный
Я люблю читать:
Классика, Художественная литература, История, Юмор, Тайна, Научная фантастика, Спорт, Эротика
Мои идеи классного времяпрепровождения
Playing card or board games with friends and teasing each other and laughing. Going on a picnic at the beach or in the park and playing frizz bee. Going out for a nice dinner date followed by a great foreign film. Hanging out on a rainy day and having a stimulating discussion with my girlfriend. Going for a drive in the Sonoma County back roads and stopping for a bite at a roadside cafe. Taking a trip to anywhere with a woman I love.
В поиске
Считаю привлекательным:
Остроумие, Кокетство, Спонтанность, Чувствительность, Сопереживание, Юмор, Красота, Внимание, Интеллект
Что и кого ищете?
A woman who is curious and expressive. A woman who is comfortable in her own skin and who likes sharing any experiences we create together. A woman who likes to speak her mind about her feelings and desires. A woman who likes her sexuality and enjoys sharing it. A woman who enjoys touching and kissing. A woman who wants to feel sexual joy and pleasure and also enjoys giving the same.
Ищу отношения типа:
Друг, Интим, Серьезные отношения