Sober 4 life gentleman seeks sober woman
Phc46
Calistoga, California | Man Op zoek naar een Vrouw
Algemene Informatie
Voornaam
Peter
Ik spreek:
Engels
Ik beschrijf mezelf als:
I am an easy-going sober-for-life gentleman that seeks a casual intimate relationship with a sober woman with like interests.I am college educated (BA in Eng Lit with some grad work). I love theatre arts, music, foreign & classic cinema and nature. I've been married & divorced twice (1st drunk, 2nd sober) but have not had a close female relationship for a while. I am self-employed and have let work dominate my life. Sobriety changed my life radically. I changed from a person of low-self esteem, self critical thinking and constant depression to a man comfortable in his own skin who is optimistic and open minded about life. I was able to excise the "critical parent" that lived in my head and become the curious, self accepting individual I am today.
I seek to find a sober woman who continues to grow emotionally, to want to learn about herself. I seek a relationship based on mutual respect and acceptance of the other as they are. My history with women has been less than satisfactory, largely based on my own inability to be open and honest. I carried a lot of garbage around in my head based on my childhood. I never felt accepted and loved by my Mother and thus developed a modus operandi where I tried to manipulate any relationship with a woman so that the overcome would equal her acceptance and caring for me. That is not who I am today. I try very hard to come into any relationship with a few pre-determined expectations as possible, save for the hope that we will like each other and become friends. In my life as a drunk any problems I experienced were never my fault. I often saw life in a negative way that meant I would always fail. Life was a closed book!
Today my mind and my heart are open, expansive and not restrictive. I take responsibility for my actions, my failures and successes. I love sunrises and sunsets today. I hear the rain on the roof and it makes me smile, it makes my heart glad. Today I don't go to many meetings unless I go with a friend. Don't get me wrong because I never forget that I am just another sober drunk, one step away from losing it all if I forget and take that drink. I have 38 years of sobriety and part of my sober history was being a recovery counselor for 15 years. I'm comfortable in my sobriety today and I still practice the principles I learned early on. If I'm uncomfortable in any setting, I leave. I don't argue or preach sobriety but I wii engage anyone that is truly interested in addiction.
It would be great to meet a sober woman and attend meetings. It would be great to make living sober a part of a new relationship. I hope and pray that happens for me.
I seek to find a sober woman who continues to grow emotionally, to want to learn about herself. I seek a relationship based on mutual respect and acceptance of the other as they are. My history with women has been less than satisfactory, largely based on my own inability to be open and honest. I carried a lot of garbage around in my head based on my childhood. I never felt accepted and loved by my Mother and thus developed a modus operandi where I tried to manipulate any relationship with a woman so that the overcome would equal her acceptance and caring for me. That is not who I am today. I try very hard to come into any relationship with a few pre-determined expectations as possible, save for the hope that we will like each other and become friends. In my life as a drunk any problems I experienced were never my fault. I often saw life in a negative way that meant I would always fail. Life was a closed book!
Today my mind and my heart are open, expansive and not restrictive. I take responsibility for my actions, my failures and successes. I love sunrises and sunsets today. I hear the rain on the roof and it makes me smile, it makes my heart glad. Today I don't go to many meetings unless I go with a friend. Don't get me wrong because I never forget that I am just another sober drunk, one step away from losing it all if I forget and take that drink. I have 38 years of sobriety and part of my sober history was being a recovery counselor for 15 years. I'm comfortable in my sobriety today and I still practice the principles I learned early on. If I'm uncomfortable in any setting, I leave. I don't argue or preach sobriety but I wii engage anyone that is truly interested in addiction.
It would be great to meet a sober woman and attend meetings. It would be great to make living sober a part of a new relationship. I hope and pray that happens for me.
Sterrenbeeld
Boogschutter
Uiterlijk & Situatie
Mijn Lichaamstype Is
Gemiddeld
Mijn Lengte Is
6' 2 (1.88 m)
Mijn Ogen Zijn
Hazelnootkleurig
Mijn Ethniciteit Is
Blank
Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is
Gescheiden
Ik Heb Kinderen
Nee
Ik Wil Kinderen
Nee
Mijn Beste Eigenschap Is
Ogen
Mijn Haar Is
Witharig
Ik heb één of meer van deze
Hond
Ben je bereid te verhuizen?
Ja
Status
Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is
Bachelor
Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is
Zelfstandig
Mijn specialisatie is
Iets Anders
Mijn functie is:
Rideshare driver
Mijn jaarsalaris is:
Tussen de €75.000 en €100.000
Ik Woon
Alleen, Met Huisdier(en)
Bij mij thuis
Is het lekker rustig
Ik Ben Een Roker
Nee
Persoonlijkheid
Op de middelbare school was ik
Buitenstaander
In sociale situaties ben ik
Verlegen, Opmerkzaam, Vriendelijk, Flirterig, Gezellig
Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn
Eten, Lezen, Sport, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Muziek, Tv, Films, Internet, Theater, Reizen, Kamperen, Vrijwilligerswerk
Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is
Thuis blijven, Films, Relaxen, Een boek lezen, Tv, Naar een museum gaan
Een perfecte eerste date is
To have a nice lunch and a walk in the park or the beach talking and getting to know and experience each other.
Wat ik altijd al eens heb willen proberen:
Just being myself with someone new (it's been quite some time since I was on a first date.
Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als
Vriendelijk, Cool
Meningen
Mijn Geloof Is
Spiritueel Maar Niet Religieus
Ik Ga Naar Diensten
Nooit
Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is
Keep growing, mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Life is short and I don't want to let pass by those desires and feelings I have. I want to give back to life just as so many others have given to me.
Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is
Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk, Gek
Smaak
Op tv kijk ik:
Nieuws, Drama's, Films, Sport
In de bioscoop kijk ik:
Actie, Science Fiction, Komedie, Drama, Animatie
Als ik naar muziek luister, luister ik altijd naar
Rock, Klassiek, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New Age, Reggae, Folk
Ik lees graag
Klassiek , Fictie, Geschiedenis, Humor, Mysterie, Science Fiction, Sport, Erotica
Mijn Idee Van Plezier is
Playing card or board games with friends and teasing each other and laughing. Going on a picnic at the beach or in the park and playing frizz bee. Going out for a nice dinner date followed by a great foreign film. Hanging out on a rainy day and having a stimulating discussion with my girlfriend. Going for a drive in the Sonoma County back roads and stopping for a bite at a roadside cafe. Taking a trip to anywhere with a woman I love.
Zoekt
Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?
Gevatheid, Flirterig, Spontaniteit, Gevoeligheid, Empathie, Humor, Goed Uiterlijk, Bedachtzaamheid, Intelligentie
Wat zoek je?
A woman who is curious and expressive. A woman who is comfortable in her own skin and who likes sharing any experiences we create together. A woman who likes to speak her mind about her feelings and desires. A woman who likes her sexuality and enjoys sharing it. A woman who enjoys touching and kissing. A woman who wants to feel sexual joy and pleasure and also enjoys giving the same.
Waar ben je naar op zoek?
Vriend, Intimiteit, Vastigheid