Sober 4 life gentleman seeks sober woman
Phc46
Calistoga, California | Мушкарац тражим жену
Основни подаци
Име
Peter
Говорим
Енглески
Мој опис
I am an easy-going sober-for-life gentleman that seeks a casual intimate relationship with a sober woman with like interests.I am college educated (BA in Eng Lit with some grad work). I love theatre arts, music, foreign & classic cinema and nature. I've been married & divorced twice (1st drunk, 2nd sober) but have not had a close female relationship for a while. I am self-employed and have let work dominate my life. Sobriety changed my life radically. I changed from a person of low-self esteem, self critical thinking and constant depression to a man comfortable in his own skin who is optimistic and open minded about life. I was able to excise the "critical parent" that lived in my head and become the curious, self accepting individual I am today.
I seek to find a sober woman who continues to grow emotionally, to want to learn about herself. I seek a relationship based on mutual respect and acceptance of the other as they are. My history with women has been less than satisfactory, largely based on my own inability to be open and honest. I carried a lot of garbage around in my head based on my childhood. I never felt accepted and loved by my Mother and thus developed a modus operandi where I tried to manipulate any relationship with a woman so that the overcome would equal her acceptance and caring for me. That is not who I am today. I try very hard to come into any relationship with a few pre-determined expectations as possible, save for the hope that we will like each other and become friends. In my life as a drunk any problems I experienced were never my fault. I often saw life in a negative way that meant I would always fail. Life was a closed book!
Today my mind and my heart are open, expansive and not restrictive. I take responsibility for my actions, my failures and successes. I love sunrises and sunsets today. I hear the rain on the roof and it makes me smile, it makes my heart glad. Today I don't go to many meetings unless I go with a friend. Don't get me wrong because I never forget that I am just another sober drunk, one step away from losing it all if I forget and take that drink. I have 38 years of sobriety and part of my sober history was being a recovery counselor for 15 years. I'm comfortable in my sobriety today and I still practice the principles I learned early on. If I'm uncomfortable in any setting, I leave. I don't argue or preach sobriety but I wii engage anyone that is truly interested in addiction.
It would be great to meet a sober woman and attend meetings. It would be great to make living sober a part of a new relationship. I hope and pray that happens for me.
I seek to find a sober woman who continues to grow emotionally, to want to learn about herself. I seek a relationship based on mutual respect and acceptance of the other as they are. My history with women has been less than satisfactory, largely based on my own inability to be open and honest. I carried a lot of garbage around in my head based on my childhood. I never felt accepted and loved by my Mother and thus developed a modus operandi where I tried to manipulate any relationship with a woman so that the overcome would equal her acceptance and caring for me. That is not who I am today. I try very hard to come into any relationship with a few pre-determined expectations as possible, save for the hope that we will like each other and become friends. In my life as a drunk any problems I experienced were never my fault. I often saw life in a negative way that meant I would always fail. Life was a closed book!
Today my mind and my heart are open, expansive and not restrictive. I take responsibility for my actions, my failures and successes. I love sunrises and sunsets today. I hear the rain on the roof and it makes me smile, it makes my heart glad. Today I don't go to many meetings unless I go with a friend. Don't get me wrong because I never forget that I am just another sober drunk, one step away from losing it all if I forget and take that drink. I have 38 years of sobriety and part of my sober history was being a recovery counselor for 15 years. I'm comfortable in my sobriety today and I still practice the principles I learned early on. If I'm uncomfortable in any setting, I leave. I don't argue or preach sobriety but I wii engage anyone that is truly interested in addiction.
It would be great to meet a sober woman and attend meetings. It would be great to make living sober a part of a new relationship. I hope and pray that happens for me.
Хороскопски знак
Стрелац
Изглед и стање
Моје грађа
Просечна
Висина
188 цм
Боја очију
Боје лешника
Раса
Белац/Белкиња
Брачно стање
Разведен/Разведена
Имам децу
Не
Желим децу
Не
Моја најбоља карактеристика
Очи
Боја косе
Сребрна
Имам
Мачка
Спреман/Спремна за селидбу
Да
Статус
Образовни ниво
Докторат
Мој радни однос
Имам своју фирму
Моја струка
Остало
Назив мог радног места
Rideshare driver
Мој годишњи приход
$75.000USD до $99.999USD
Живим
Сам(а), Кућним љубимцем/љубимцима
Код куће
Увек је мирно
Пушим
Не
Личност
У средњој школи био/била сам
Повучен(а)
У друштву сам
Стидљив(а), Посматрач, Дружељубив/дружељубива, Волим да флертујем, Отворен/отоврена
Моја интересовања и хобији
Вечере, Читање, Спортове, Учење, Музика, ТВ, Филмове, Интернет, Позориште, Путовања, Камповање, Волонтирање
Како замишљам провод
Волим да останем код куће, Биоскоп, Блеја, Читање, ТВ, Посета музеју
Мој савршен први састанак
To have a nice lunch and a walk in the park or the beach talking and getting to know and experience each other.
Одувек сам желео/желела да
Just being myself with someone new (it's been quite some time since I was on a first date.
Моји пријатељи кажу да сам
Дружељубив/дружељубива, Кул
Погледи/Животни ставови
Религија
Духован/духовна сам, али не религиозан/религиозна
Идем у цркву
Никада
Мој животни циљ
Keep growing, mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Life is short and I don't want to let pass by those desires and feelings I have. I want to give back to life just as so many others have given to me.
Мој смисао за хумор
Сиров/саркастичан, Дружељубив/дружељубива, Блесав/блесава
Укус
На ТВ-у увек гледам
Вести, Драме, Филмове, Спортове
У биоскопу увек гледам
Акције, Научну фантастику, Комедије, Драме, Анимиране филмове
Увек слушам
Рок, Класична, Блуз, Џез, Латино, ”Њу ејџ” музика, Реге, Народна
Увек читам
Класике, Фикције, Историјске, Смисао за хумор, Мистерије, Научну фантастику, Спортове, Еротика
Како замишљам добру забаву
Playing card or board games with friends and teasing each other and laughing. Going on a picnic at the beach or in the park and playing frizz bee. Going out for a nice dinner date followed by a great foreign film. Hanging out on a rainy day and having a stimulating discussion with my girlfriend. Going for a drive in the Sonoma County back roads and stopping for a bite at a roadside cafe. Taking a trip to anywhere with a woman I love.
Тражим
Шта Вас привлачи?
Домишљатост, Флертовање, Спонтаност, Осећајност, Саосећајност, Смисао за хумор, Изглед, Брижљивост, Интелигенција
Шта тражите?
A woman who is curious and expressive. A woman who is comfortable in her own skin and who likes sharing any experiences we create together. A woman who likes to speak her mind about her feelings and desires. A woman who likes her sexuality and enjoys sharing it. A woman who enjoys touching and kissing. A woman who wants to feel sexual joy and pleasure and also enjoys giving the same.
Какву везу тражите?
Пријатељ, Интима, Посвећеност