Sober 4 life gentleman seeks sober woman
Phc46
Calistoga, California | Man Letar efter Kvinna
Grundläggande information
Förnamn
Peter
Jag kan tala
Engelska
Jag skulle beskriva mig själv som
I am an easy-going sober-for-life gentleman that seeks a casual intimate relationship with a sober woman with like interests.I am college educated (BA in Eng Lit with some grad work). I love theatre arts, music, foreign & classic cinema and nature. I've been married & divorced twice (1st drunk, 2nd sober) but have not had a close female relationship for a while. I am self-employed and have let work dominate my life. Sobriety changed my life radically. I changed from a person of low-self esteem, self critical thinking and constant depression to a man comfortable in his own skin who is optimistic and open minded about life. I was able to excise the "critical parent" that lived in my head and become the curious, self accepting individual I am today.
I seek to find a sober woman who continues to grow emotionally, to want to learn about herself. I seek a relationship based on mutual respect and acceptance of the other as they are. My history with women has been less than satisfactory, largely based on my own inability to be open and honest. I carried a lot of garbage around in my head based on my childhood. I never felt accepted and loved by my Mother and thus developed a modus operandi where I tried to manipulate any relationship with a woman so that the overcome would equal her acceptance and caring for me. That is not who I am today. I try very hard to come into any relationship with a few pre-determined expectations as possible, save for the hope that we will like each other and become friends. In my life as a drunk any problems I experienced were never my fault. I often saw life in a negative way that meant I would always fail. Life was a closed book!
Today my mind and my heart are open, expansive and not restrictive. I take responsibility for my actions, my failures and successes. I love sunrises and sunsets today. I hear the rain on the roof and it makes me smile, it makes my heart glad. Today I don't go to many meetings unless I go with a friend. Don't get me wrong because I never forget that I am just another sober drunk, one step away from losing it all if I forget and take that drink. I have 38 years of sobriety and part of my sober history was being a recovery counselor for 15 years. I'm comfortable in my sobriety today and I still practice the principles I learned early on. If I'm uncomfortable in any setting, I leave. I don't argue or preach sobriety but I wii engage anyone that is truly interested in addiction.
It would be great to meet a sober woman and attend meetings. It would be great to make living sober a part of a new relationship. I hope and pray that happens for me.
I seek to find a sober woman who continues to grow emotionally, to want to learn about herself. I seek a relationship based on mutual respect and acceptance of the other as they are. My history with women has been less than satisfactory, largely based on my own inability to be open and honest. I carried a lot of garbage around in my head based on my childhood. I never felt accepted and loved by my Mother and thus developed a modus operandi where I tried to manipulate any relationship with a woman so that the overcome would equal her acceptance and caring for me. That is not who I am today. I try very hard to come into any relationship with a few pre-determined expectations as possible, save for the hope that we will like each other and become friends. In my life as a drunk any problems I experienced were never my fault. I often saw life in a negative way that meant I would always fail. Life was a closed book!
Today my mind and my heart are open, expansive and not restrictive. I take responsibility for my actions, my failures and successes. I love sunrises and sunsets today. I hear the rain on the roof and it makes me smile, it makes my heart glad. Today I don't go to many meetings unless I go with a friend. Don't get me wrong because I never forget that I am just another sober drunk, one step away from losing it all if I forget and take that drink. I have 38 years of sobriety and part of my sober history was being a recovery counselor for 15 years. I'm comfortable in my sobriety today and I still practice the principles I learned early on. If I'm uncomfortable in any setting, I leave. I don't argue or preach sobriety but I wii engage anyone that is truly interested in addiction.
It would be great to meet a sober woman and attend meetings. It would be great to make living sober a part of a new relationship. I hope and pray that happens for me.
Stjärntecken
Skytten
Utseende & situation
Min kroppstyp är
Medelmåttig
Min längd är
192 cm
Mina ögon är
Brungröna
Min etnicitet är
Kaukasisk
Mitt civilstånd är
Skild
Jag har barn
Nej
Jag vill ha barn
Nej
Min bästa kroppsdel är
Ögon
Mitt hår är
Silver
Jag har en eller flera av dessa
Hund
Villig att flytta
Ja
Status
Min utbildningsnivå är
Universitetsexamen
Min nuvarande anställningsstatus är
Egen-företagare
Min specialitet är
Annat
Min arbetstitel är
Rideshare driver
Jag tjänar så här mycket per år
Mellan 750 000 och en miljon kronor
Jag bor
Ensam, Med husdjur
Hemma
Allt är lugnt
Jag är rökare
Nej
Personlighet
I skolan var jag
Den utstötta
Mitt beteende i sociala sammanhang är
Blyg, Uppmärksam, Vänlig, Flirtig, Utåtriktad
Mina intressen och hobbies är
Middag, Läsa, Sport, Lärande, Musik, TV , Filmer, Internet, Teater, Resor, Campa, Volontärarbete
Att ha kul innebär för mig
Stanna hemma, Bio, Tar det lugnt, Läsa en bok, TV , Gå på museum
Den idealiska första dejten för mig skulle vara att
To have a nice lunch and a walk in the park or the beach talking and getting to know and experience each other.
Jag har alltid velat prova
Just being myself with someone new (it's been quite some time since I was on a first date.
Mina vänner tycker att jag är
Vänlig, Cool
Åsikter
Min religion är
Spirituell men inte religiös
Jag går i kyrkan
Aldrig
Mitt mål i livet är
Keep growing, mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Life is short and I don't want to let pass by those desires and feelings I have. I want to give back to life just as so many others have given to me.
Min humor är
Torr / Sarkastisk, Vänlig, Tramsig
Smak
På TV tittar jag alltid på
Nyheter, Drama, Filmer, Sport
När jag går på bio ser jag alltid
Action, Science Fiction, Komedier, Drama, Tecknat
När jag lyssnar på musik lyssnar jag alltid på
Rock, Klassisk, Blues, Jazz, Latino, New Age, Reggae, Folkmusik
När jag läser föredrar jag följande:
Klassisk, Fiktion, Historia, Humor, Mystery, Science Fiction, Sport, Erotik
Det jag tycker är kul är
Playing card or board games with friends and teasing each other and laughing. Going on a picnic at the beach or in the park and playing frizz bee. Going out for a nice dinner date followed by a great foreign film. Hanging out on a rainy day and having a stimulating discussion with my girlfriend. Going for a drive in the Sonoma County back roads and stopping for a bite at a roadside cafe. Taking a trip to anywhere with a woman I love.
Letar efter
Vad tycker du är attraktivt?
Kvickhet, Flirtighet, Spontanitet, Känslighet, Empati, Humor, Snygga drag, Omtänksamhet, Intelligens
Vad letar du efter?
A woman who is curious and expressive. A woman who is comfortable in her own skin and who likes sharing any experiences we create together. A woman who likes to speak her mind about her feelings and desires. A woman who likes her sexuality and enjoys sharing it. A woman who enjoys touching and kissing. A woman who wants to feel sexual joy and pleasure and also enjoys giving the same.
Vilken form av förhållande söker du?
Vän, Intimt, Hängivenhet