Sober 4 life gentleman seeks sober woman
Phc46
Calistoga, California | Mann Søker A Kvinne
Grunnleggende informasjon
Fornavn
Peter
Jeg kan snakke
Norsk
Jeg vil beskrive meg selv som
I am an easy-going sober-for-life gentleman that seeks a casual intimate relationship with a sober woman with like interests.I am college educated (BA in Eng Lit with some grad work). I love theatre arts, music, foreign & classic cinema and nature. I've been married & divorced twice (1st drunk, 2nd sober) but have not had a close female relationship for a while. I am self-employed and have let work dominate my life. Sobriety changed my life radically. I changed from a person of low-self esteem, self critical thinking and constant depression to a man comfortable in his own skin who is optimistic and open minded about life. I was able to excise the "critical parent" that lived in my head and become the curious, self accepting individual I am today.
I seek to find a sober woman who continues to grow emotionally, to want to learn about herself. I seek a relationship based on mutual respect and acceptance of the other as they are. My history with women has been less than satisfactory, largely based on my own inability to be open and honest. I carried a lot of garbage around in my head based on my childhood. I never felt accepted and loved by my Mother and thus developed a modus operandi where I tried to manipulate any relationship with a woman so that the overcome would equal her acceptance and caring for me. That is not who I am today. I try very hard to come into any relationship with a few pre-determined expectations as possible, save for the hope that we will like each other and become friends. In my life as a drunk any problems I experienced were never my fault. I often saw life in a negative way that meant I would always fail. Life was a closed book!
Today my mind and my heart are open, expansive and not restrictive. I take responsibility for my actions, my failures and successes. I love sunrises and sunsets today. I hear the rain on the roof and it makes me smile, it makes my heart glad. Today I don't go to many meetings unless I go with a friend. Don't get me wrong because I never forget that I am just another sober drunk, one step away from losing it all if I forget and take that drink. I have 38 years of sobriety and part of my sober history was being a recovery counselor for 15 years. I'm comfortable in my sobriety today and I still practice the principles I learned early on. If I'm uncomfortable in any setting, I leave. I don't argue or preach sobriety but I wii engage anyone that is truly interested in addiction.
It would be great to meet a sober woman and attend meetings. It would be great to make living sober a part of a new relationship. I hope and pray that happens for me.
I seek to find a sober woman who continues to grow emotionally, to want to learn about herself. I seek a relationship based on mutual respect and acceptance of the other as they are. My history with women has been less than satisfactory, largely based on my own inability to be open and honest. I carried a lot of garbage around in my head based on my childhood. I never felt accepted and loved by my Mother and thus developed a modus operandi where I tried to manipulate any relationship with a woman so that the overcome would equal her acceptance and caring for me. That is not who I am today. I try very hard to come into any relationship with a few pre-determined expectations as possible, save for the hope that we will like each other and become friends. In my life as a drunk any problems I experienced were never my fault. I often saw life in a negative way that meant I would always fail. Life was a closed book!
Today my mind and my heart are open, expansive and not restrictive. I take responsibility for my actions, my failures and successes. I love sunrises and sunsets today. I hear the rain on the roof and it makes me smile, it makes my heart glad. Today I don't go to many meetings unless I go with a friend. Don't get me wrong because I never forget that I am just another sober drunk, one step away from losing it all if I forget and take that drink. I have 38 years of sobriety and part of my sober history was being a recovery counselor for 15 years. I'm comfortable in my sobriety today and I still practice the principles I learned early on. If I'm uncomfortable in any setting, I leave. I don't argue or preach sobriety but I wii engage anyone that is truly interested in addiction.
It would be great to meet a sober woman and attend meetings. It would be great to make living sober a part of a new relationship. I hope and pray that happens for me.
Registrer
Skytten
Utseende & Situasjon
My Kroppstype er
Gjennomsnittlig
Min høyde er
6 '2 (1.88 m)
Øynene mine er
Hassel
Min etnisitet er
kaukasisk
Min Sivilsituasjon er
Skilt
Jeg har barn
Nei
Jeg vil ha barn
Nei
Min beste egenskap er
Øyne
Mitt hår er
Sølv
Jeg har en eller flere av disse
Hund
Villing til å flytte
Ja
Status
Min Utdanningsnivå Er
Universitetsgrad
Min nåværende arbeidssituasjon er
Selvstendig næringsdrivende
Min spesialitet er
Annet
Minn jobb tittel er
Rideshare driver
Jeg tjener så mye på et år
$75,000USD Til $99,999USD
Jeg bor
Alene, Med kjæledyr
Hjemme
Alt er rolig
Jeg er en røyker
Nei
Personlighet
Når jeg gikk på skolen, var jeg
utstøtt
Min sosiale atferd er
Sjenert, Observant, Vennlig, Flørtende, Utadvent
Mine interesser og hobbier er
Restaurant, Lese, Sport, Lære, Musikk, Tv, Filmer, Internett, Teater, Reise, Kamping, Frivillig arbeid
Min idé av å ha det gøy er
Være hjemme, Kino, Slappe av, Lese en bok, Tv, Gå på museum
En ideel første date vil være
To have a nice lunch and a walk in the park or the beach talking and getting to know and experience each other.
Jeg har alltid hatt lyst til å prøve
Just being myself with someone new (it's been quite some time since I was on a first date.
Mine venner beskriver meg som
Vennlig, Kul
Visninger
Min religion er
Åndelig men ikke religiøs
Jeg går på gudstjeneste
Aldri
Mitt mål i livet er
Keep growing, mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Life is short and I don't want to let pass by those desires and feelings I have. I want to give back to life just as so many others have given to me.
Min humoristiske sans er
Tørr / Sarkastisk, Vennlig, Tullete
Smak
På TV ser jeg alltid på
Nyheter, Drama, Filmer, Sport
Når jeg går på kino, går jeg alltid for å se en
Action, Science Fiction, Komedie, Drama, Andirektemeldingasjon
Når jeg hører på musikk, så hører jeg alltid på
Rock, Klassisk, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Reggae, Folkemusikk
Når jeg leser, så leser jeg alltid
Klassisk, Fiction, Historie, Humor, Mysterier, Science Fiction, Sport, Erotikk
Min idé av å ha det gøy er
Playing card or board games with friends and teasing each other and laughing. Going on a picnic at the beach or in the park and playing frizz bee. Going out for a nice dinner date followed by a great foreign film. Hanging out on a rainy day and having a stimulating discussion with my girlfriend. Going for a drive in the Sonoma County back roads and stopping for a bite at a roadside cafe. Taking a trip to anywhere with a woman I love.
Leter etter
Hva finner du attraktivt?
vett, flørtende, Spontanitet, Følsomhet, Empati, Humor, Flott utseende, Omtanksfull, Intelligens
Hva ser du etter?
A woman who is curious and expressive. A woman who is comfortable in her own skin and who likes sharing any experiences we create together. A woman who likes to speak her mind about her feelings and desires. A woman who likes her sexuality and enjoys sharing it. A woman who enjoys touching and kissing. A woman who wants to feel sexual joy and pleasure and also enjoys giving the same.
Hva slag forhold søker du?
Venn, Intim, Forpliktet