Sober 4 life gentleman seeks sober woman

Etunimi

Peter

Osaan puhua

Englanti

Kuvailisin itseäni

I am an easy-going sober-for-life gentleman that seeks a casual intimate relationship with a sober woman with like interests.I am college educated (BA in Eng Lit with some grad work). I love theatre arts, music, foreign & classic cinema and nature. I've been married & divorced twice (1st drunk, 2nd sober) but have not had a close female relationship for a while. I am self-employed and have let work dominate my life. Sobriety changed my life radically. I changed from a person of low-self esteem, self critical thinking and constant depression to a man comfortable in his own skin who is optimistic and open minded about life. I was able to excise the "critical parent" that lived in my head and become the curious, self accepting individual I am today.
I seek to find a sober woman who continues to grow emotionally, to want to learn about herself. I seek a relationship based on mutual respect and acceptance of the other as they are. My history with women has been less than satisfactory, largely based on my own inability to be open and honest. I carried a lot of garbage around in my head based on my childhood. I never felt accepted and loved by my Mother and thus developed a modus operandi where I tried to manipulate any relationship with a woman so that the overcome would equal her acceptance and caring for me. That is not who I am today. I try very hard to come into any relationship with a few pre-determined expectations as possible, save for the hope that we will like each other and become friends. In my life as a drunk any problems I experienced were never my fault. I often saw life in a negative way that meant I would always fail. Life was a closed book!
Today my mind and my heart are open, expansive and not restrictive. I take responsibility for my actions, my failures and successes. I love sunrises and sunsets today. I hear the rain on the roof and it makes me smile, it makes my heart glad. Today I don't go to many meetings unless I go with a friend. Don't get me wrong because I never forget that I am just another sober drunk, one step away from losing it all if I forget and take that drink. I have 38 years of sobriety and part of my sober history was being a recovery counselor for 15 years. I'm comfortable in my sobriety today and I still practice the principles I learned early on. If I'm uncomfortable in any setting, I leave. I don't argue or preach sobriety but I wii engage anyone that is truly interested in addiction.
It would be great to meet a sober woman and attend meetings. It would be great to make living sober a part of a new relationship. I hope and pray that happens for me.

Kirjaudu

Jousimies

Vartalonmallini on

Keskiverto

Pituuteni on

6' 2 (1.88 m)

Silmienvärini on

Pähkinä

Etninen taustani on

Valkoihoinen

Aviosäätyni on

Eronnut

Minulla on lapsia

Ei

Haluan lapsia

Ei

Paras puoleni on

Silmät

Hiukseni ovat

Hopea

Minulla on yksi tai kaksi tällaista

Koira

Olen valmis muuttamaan

Kyllä

Koulutukseni taso on

Korkeakoulu tutkinto

Työllisyys tilanteeni on

Yrittäjä

Erikoistun

Muu

Työ tittelini on

Rideshare driver

Tuloni per vuosi

$75,000USD - $99,999USD

Asun

Yksin, Lemmikin / Lemmikeiden kanssa

Kotona

Kaikki on rauhallista

Tupakoin

Ei

Yläasteella olin

Syrjäytynyt

Sosiaalinen käyttäytymiseni

Ujo, Sivustaseuraaja, Ystävällinen, Flirttaileva, Aina menossa

Kiinnostuksen kohteet ja Harrastukseni ovat

Ruokailla, Lukeminen, Urheilu, Oppiminen, Musiikki, Tv, Elokuvat, Internetti, Teatteri, Matkustaminen, Telttailu, Vapaaehtoistoiminta

Käsitykseni mukavasta ajanvietteestä on

Kotona oleskelu, Elokuvat, Rentoutuminen, Kirjan Lukeminen, Tv, Museossa käyminen

Unelma treffini olisivat

To have a nice lunch and a walk in the park or the beach talking and getting to know and experience each other.

Olen aina halunnut kokeilla

Just being myself with someone new (it's been quite some time since I was on a first date.

Kaverini kuvailevat minun olevan

Ystävällinen, suosittu

Uskontoni on

Hengellinen mutta ei uskonnollinen

Käyn säännöllisesti

Ei koskaan

Tavoitteeni elämässäni on

Keep growing, mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Life is short and I don't want to let pass by those desires and feelings I have. I want to give back to life just as so many others have given to me.

Minun tapainen huumori on

Kuiva / Sarkastinen, Ystävällinen, Hassu

Televisiosta katson

Uutiset, Draamat, Elokuvat, Urheilu

Kun menen elokuviin, lähden katsomaan

Toiminta, Scifi, Komedia, Draama, Animaatio

Kun kuuntelen musiikkia, kuuntelen aina

Rock musiikki, Klassinen, Blues musiikki, Jazz musiikki, Latina, New age musiikki, Reggae musiikki, Folk musiikki

Kun luen, luen aina

Klassinen, Kaunokirjallisuus, Historia, Huumori, Mysteeri, Scifi, Urheilu, Eroottinen

Käsitykseni hauskanpidosta on

Playing card or board games with friends and teasing each other and laughing. Going on a picnic at the beach or in the park and playing frizz bee. Going out for a nice dinner date followed by a great foreign film. Hanging out on a rainy day and having a stimulating discussion with my girlfriend. Going for a drive in the Sonoma County back roads and stopping for a bite at a roadside cafe. Taking a trip to anywhere with a woman I love.

Mikä sinua vetää puoleensa?

Nokkela, Flirttaileva, Spontaanisuus, Herkkyys, Empatia, Huumori, Hyvä ulkonäkö, Ajattelevaisuus, Viisaus

Mitä etsit?

A woman who is curious and expressive. A woman who is comfortable in her own skin and who likes sharing any experiences we create together. A woman who likes to speak her mind about her feelings and desires. A woman who likes her sexuality and enjoys sharing it. A woman who enjoys touching and kissing. A woman who wants to feel sexual joy and pleasure and also enjoys giving the same.

Minkälaista suhdetta etsit?

Kaveri, Intiimi, Sitoutunut