Sober 4 life gentleman seeks sober woman
Phc46
Calistoga, California | Hombre Buscando Mujer
Información Básica
Nombre
Peter
Puedo hablar
Inglés
Me describiría a mi mismo como
I am an easy-going sober-for-life gentleman that seeks a casual intimate relationship with a sober woman with like interests.I am college educated (BA in Eng Lit with some grad work). I love theatre arts, music, foreign & classic cinema and nature. I've been married & divorced twice (1st drunk, 2nd sober) but have not had a close female relationship for a while. I am self-employed and have let work dominate my life. Sobriety changed my life radically. I changed from a person of low-self esteem, self critical thinking and constant depression to a man comfortable in his own skin who is optimistic and open minded about life. I was able to excise the "critical parent" that lived in my head and become the curious, self accepting individual I am today.
I seek to find a sober woman who continues to grow emotionally, to want to learn about herself. I seek a relationship based on mutual respect and acceptance of the other as they are. My history with women has been less than satisfactory, largely based on my own inability to be open and honest. I carried a lot of garbage around in my head based on my childhood. I never felt accepted and loved by my Mother and thus developed a modus operandi where I tried to manipulate any relationship with a woman so that the overcome would equal her acceptance and caring for me. That is not who I am today. I try very hard to come into any relationship with a few pre-determined expectations as possible, save for the hope that we will like each other and become friends. In my life as a drunk any problems I experienced were never my fault. I often saw life in a negative way that meant I would always fail. Life was a closed book!
Today my mind and my heart are open, expansive and not restrictive. I take responsibility for my actions, my failures and successes. I love sunrises and sunsets today. I hear the rain on the roof and it makes me smile, it makes my heart glad. Today I don't go to many meetings unless I go with a friend. Don't get me wrong because I never forget that I am just another sober drunk, one step away from losing it all if I forget and take that drink. I have 38 years of sobriety and part of my sober history was being a recovery counselor for 15 years. I'm comfortable in my sobriety today and I still practice the principles I learned early on. If I'm uncomfortable in any setting, I leave. I don't argue or preach sobriety but I wii engage anyone that is truly interested in addiction.
It would be great to meet a sober woman and attend meetings. It would be great to make living sober a part of a new relationship. I hope and pray that happens for me.
I seek to find a sober woman who continues to grow emotionally, to want to learn about herself. I seek a relationship based on mutual respect and acceptance of the other as they are. My history with women has been less than satisfactory, largely based on my own inability to be open and honest. I carried a lot of garbage around in my head based on my childhood. I never felt accepted and loved by my Mother and thus developed a modus operandi where I tried to manipulate any relationship with a woman so that the overcome would equal her acceptance and caring for me. That is not who I am today. I try very hard to come into any relationship with a few pre-determined expectations as possible, save for the hope that we will like each other and become friends. In my life as a drunk any problems I experienced were never my fault. I often saw life in a negative way that meant I would always fail. Life was a closed book!
Today my mind and my heart are open, expansive and not restrictive. I take responsibility for my actions, my failures and successes. I love sunrises and sunsets today. I hear the rain on the roof and it makes me smile, it makes my heart glad. Today I don't go to many meetings unless I go with a friend. Don't get me wrong because I never forget that I am just another sober drunk, one step away from losing it all if I forget and take that drink. I have 38 years of sobriety and part of my sober history was being a recovery counselor for 15 years. I'm comfortable in my sobriety today and I still practice the principles I learned early on. If I'm uncomfortable in any setting, I leave. I don't argue or preach sobriety but I wii engage anyone that is truly interested in addiction.
It would be great to meet a sober woman and attend meetings. It would be great to make living sober a part of a new relationship. I hope and pray that happens for me.
Signo
Sagitario
Apariencia y Situación
Mi tipo de cuerpo es
Normal
Mi altura es
6' 2 (1.88 m)
Mis ojos son
Avellana
Mi raza es
Caucásico
Mi situación marital es
Divorciado
Tengo hijos
No
Quiero tener hijos
No
Mi Mejor característica es
Ojos
Mi pelo es
Plata
Tengo uno o más de estos
Perro
Me iría a vivir a otro lugar
Si
Estatus
Mi nivel de estudios / educación es
Diploma Universitario
Mi situación laboral actual es
Auto Empleo
Mi especialidad es
Otros
Mi trabajo es como
Rideshare driver
Mi salario anual es de
$75,000USD a $99,999USD
Vivo en
Solo/a, Con Mascota/s
En casa
Todo tranquilo
Soy Fumador
No
Personalidad
En el instituto, era
Forajido
Socialmente, me describiría como
Tímido/a, Observador, Amistoso, Coqueto/a, Extrovertido/a
Mis aficiones e intereses son
Cenar, Leer, Deportes, Aprender, Música, Televisión, Películas, Internet, Teatro, Viajar, Ir de camping, Voluntariado
Mi idea de un rato estupendo es
Quedarme en casa, Películas, Relajarse, Leer un Libro, Televisión, Ir a un Museo
Mi primera cita ideal sería
To have a nice lunch and a walk in the park or the beach talking and getting to know and experience each other.
Siempre he querido probar
Just being myself with someone new (it's been quite some time since I was on a first date.
Mis amigos me describen como
Amistoso, Genial
Puntos de Vista
Mi religión es
Espiritual pero no religioso
Voy a la iglesia
Nunca
Mi meta en la vida
Keep growing, mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Life is short and I don't want to let pass by those desires and feelings I have. I want to give back to life just as so many others have given to me.
Mi sentido del humor es
Seco / Sarcástico, Amistoso, Bobo
Gustos
En la TV, siempre veo
Noticias, Dramas, Películas, Deportes
Si voy al cine, siempre me gusta ver una
Acción, Ciencia Ficción, Comedia , Drama , Animación
Cuando escucho música, lo que más me gusta es
Rock, Clásica, Blues, Jazz, Latino, Nueva Era / New Age, Reggae, Folk
Cuando leo libros, lo que más me gusta es
Clásicos, Ficción, Historia, Humor, Misterio, Ciencia Ficción, Deportes, Erótica
Mi idea de diversión es
Playing card or board games with friends and teasing each other and laughing. Going on a picnic at the beach or in the park and playing frizz bee. Going out for a nice dinner date followed by a great foreign film. Hanging out on a rainy day and having a stimulating discussion with my girlfriend. Going for a drive in the Sonoma County back roads and stopping for a bite at a roadside cafe. Taking a trip to anywhere with a woman I love.
Estoy buscando a
¿Qué te resulta atractivo?
Ingenio, Coquetería, Espontaneidad, Sensibilidad, Empatía, Humor, Buena Imagen, Detallista, Inteligencia
¿Qué estás buscando?
A woman who is curious and expressive. A woman who is comfortable in her own skin and who likes sharing any experiences we create together. A woman who likes to speak her mind about her feelings and desires. A woman who likes her sexuality and enjoys sharing it. A woman who enjoys touching and kissing. A woman who wants to feel sexual joy and pleasure and also enjoys giving the same.
¿Qué tipo de relación estás buscando?
Amigo/a , Íntimos, Comprometido