Sober 4 life gentleman seeks sober woman

Fornavn

Peter

Jeg taler

Engelsk

Jeg beskriver mig selv som

I am an easy-going sober-for-life gentleman that seeks a casual intimate relationship with a sober woman with like interests.I am college educated (BA in Eng Lit with some grad work). I love theatre arts, music, foreign & classic cinema and nature. I've been married & divorced twice (1st drunk, 2nd sober) but have not had a close female relationship for a while. I am self-employed and have let work dominate my life. Sobriety changed my life radically. I changed from a person of low-self esteem, self critical thinking and constant depression to a man comfortable in his own skin who is optimistic and open minded about life. I was able to excise the "critical parent" that lived in my head and become the curious, self accepting individual I am today.
I seek to find a sober woman who continues to grow emotionally, to want to learn about herself. I seek a relationship based on mutual respect and acceptance of the other as they are. My history with women has been less than satisfactory, largely based on my own inability to be open and honest. I carried a lot of garbage around in my head based on my childhood. I never felt accepted and loved by my Mother and thus developed a modus operandi where I tried to manipulate any relationship with a woman so that the overcome would equal her acceptance and caring for me. That is not who I am today. I try very hard to come into any relationship with a few pre-determined expectations as possible, save for the hope that we will like each other and become friends. In my life as a drunk any problems I experienced were never my fault. I often saw life in a negative way that meant I would always fail. Life was a closed book!
Today my mind and my heart are open, expansive and not restrictive. I take responsibility for my actions, my failures and successes. I love sunrises and sunsets today. I hear the rain on the roof and it makes me smile, it makes my heart glad. Today I don't go to many meetings unless I go with a friend. Don't get me wrong because I never forget that I am just another sober drunk, one step away from losing it all if I forget and take that drink. I have 38 years of sobriety and part of my sober history was being a recovery counselor for 15 years. I'm comfortable in my sobriety today and I still practice the principles I learned early on. If I'm uncomfortable in any setting, I leave. I don't argue or preach sobriety but I wii engage anyone that is truly interested in addiction.
It would be great to meet a sober woman and attend meetings. It would be great to make living sober a part of a new relationship. I hope and pray that happens for me.

Underskriv

Skytten

Min kropstype er

Gennemsnitlig

Min højde er

188 cm

Mine øjne er

Nøddebrun

Min etnicitet er

Kaukasisk

Min civilstand er

Skilt

Jeg har børn

Nej

Jeg vil have børn

Nej

Mit bedste karaktertræk er

Øjne

Mit hår er

Sølv

Jeg har en eller flere af disse

Hund

Villig til at flytte

Ja

Mit uddannelsesniveau er

Universitetsgrad

Min nuværende ansættelsesstatus er

Selvstændig

Mit speciale er

Andet

Min jobtitel er

Rideshare driver

Jeg tjener så meget på et år

Fra $75.000USD til $99.999USD

Jeg bor

Alene, Med kæledyr

Hjemme

Alt er roligt

Jeg er ryger

Nej

I gymnasiet var jeg

Udstødt

Min sociale opførsel er

Genert, Observerende, Venlig, Flirtende, Uadvendt

Mine interesser og hobbier er

Spise til middag, Læsning, Sport, Læring, Musik, Tv, Film, Internet, Teater, Rejser, Camping, Frivilligt

Min idé om at have det sjovt er

Være hjemme, I biografen, Afslappende, Læse en bog, Tv, Gå på museum

En ideel første date ville være

To have a nice lunch and a walk in the park or the beach talking and getting to know and experience each other.

Jeg har altid villet prøve

Just being myself with someone new (it's been quite some time since I was on a first date.

Mine venner beskriver mig som

Venlig, Cool

Min religion er

Spirituel, men ikke religiøs

Jeg deltager i tjenester

Aldrig

Mit mål i livet er

Keep growing, mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Life is short and I don't want to let pass by those desires and feelings I have. I want to give back to life just as so many others have given to me.

Min form for humor er

Tør / sarkastisk, Venlig, Fjollet

I tv ser jeg altid

Nyheder, Dramaer, Film, Sport

Når jeg går i biografen ser jeg altid en

Handling, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Animation

Når jeg hører musik, lytter jeg altid til

Rock, Klassisk, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Reggae, Folk

Når jeg læser, læser jeg altid

Klassisk, Fiktion, Historie, Humor, Mystik, Science Fiction, Sport, Erotik

Min forestilling om hvad der er sjovt er

Playing card or board games with friends and teasing each other and laughing. Going on a picnic at the beach or in the park and playing frizz bee. Going out for a nice dinner date followed by a great foreign film. Hanging out on a rainy day and having a stimulating discussion with my girlfriend. Going for a drive in the Sonoma County back roads and stopping for a bite at a roadside cafe. Taking a trip to anywhere with a woman I love.

Hvad finder du attraktivt?

Morsom, Flirtende, Spontanitet, Følsomhed, Empati, Humor, Flot udseende, Omtanke, Intelligens

Hvad leder du efter?

A woman who is curious and expressive. A woman who is comfortable in her own skin and who likes sharing any experiences we create together. A woman who likes to speak her mind about her feelings and desires. A woman who likes her sexuality and enjoys sharing it. A woman who enjoys touching and kissing. A woman who wants to feel sexual joy and pleasure and also enjoys giving the same.

Hvilken type forhold leder du efter?

Ven, Intim, Forpligtet