Sober 4 life gentleman seeks sober woman

Prénom

Peter

Je sais parler

Anglais

Je me décrirais comme

I am an easy-going sober-for-life gentleman that seeks a casual intimate relationship with a sober woman with like interests.I am college educated (BA in Eng Lit with some grad work). I love theatre arts, music, foreign & classic cinema and nature. I've been married & divorced twice (1st drunk, 2nd sober) but have not had a close female relationship for a while. I am self-employed and have let work dominate my life. Sobriety changed my life radically. I changed from a person of low-self esteem, self critical thinking and constant depression to a man comfortable in his own skin who is optimistic and open minded about life. I was able to excise the "critical parent" that lived in my head and become the curious, self accepting individual I am today.
I seek to find a sober woman who continues to grow emotionally, to want to learn about herself. I seek a relationship based on mutual respect and acceptance of the other as they are. My history with women has been less than satisfactory, largely based on my own inability to be open and honest. I carried a lot of garbage around in my head based on my childhood. I never felt accepted and loved by my Mother and thus developed a modus operandi where I tried to manipulate any relationship with a woman so that the overcome would equal her acceptance and caring for me. That is not who I am today. I try very hard to come into any relationship with a few pre-determined expectations as possible, save for the hope that we will like each other and become friends. In my life as a drunk any problems I experienced were never my fault. I often saw life in a negative way that meant I would always fail. Life was a closed book!
Today my mind and my heart are open, expansive and not restrictive. I take responsibility for my actions, my failures and successes. I love sunrises and sunsets today. I hear the rain on the roof and it makes me smile, it makes my heart glad. Today I don't go to many meetings unless I go with a friend. Don't get me wrong because I never forget that I am just another sober drunk, one step away from losing it all if I forget and take that drink. I have 38 years of sobriety and part of my sober history was being a recovery counselor for 15 years. I'm comfortable in my sobriety today and I still practice the principles I learned early on. If I'm uncomfortable in any setting, I leave. I don't argue or preach sobriety but I wii engage anyone that is truly interested in addiction.
It would be great to meet a sober woman and attend meetings. It would be great to make living sober a part of a new relationship. I hope and pray that happens for me.

Signe

Sagittaire

Ma silhouette est

Normale

Ma taille est

6' 2 (1.88 m)

Mes yeux sont

Noisettes

Mon origine ethnique est

Caucasienne

Ma situation maritale est

Divorcé/e

J'ai des enfants

Non

Je veux des enfants

Non

Ce que j'ai de mieux

Yeux

Mes cheveux sont

Argentés

J'en ai 1 ou plus

Chien

Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs

Oui

Mon niveau d'éducation est

Diplôme d'études supérieures

Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est

Auto-entrepreneur

Mon domaine de compétence est

Autre

Mon titre de fonction est

Rideshare driver

J'ai gagné cette année

De 75,000 € à 99,999 €

Je vis

Seul/e, Avec des animaux

Chez moi

C'est plutôt calme

Je fume

Non

Au lycée, j'étais un/e

Mal-aimé/e

Socialement, je suis plutôt

Timide, Observateur, Sympa, Séducteur, Ouvert

Mes passions et loisirs sont

Dîner , Lecture, Sports, Apprendre, Musique, Télévision, Films, Internet, Théâtre, Voyages, Camper, Bénévolat

Un bon moment pour moi c'est

Rester à la maison, Regarder un bon film, Me relaxer, Lire, Télévision, Aller au musée

Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait

To have a nice lunch and a walk in the park or the beach talking and getting to know and experience each other.

J'ai toujours voulu essayer

Just being myself with someone new (it's been quite some time since I was on a first date.

Mes amis me décrivent comme

Sympa, Cool

Ma religion c'est

Croyances spirituelles mais pas religieuses

Je vais à la messe

Jamais

Mon but dans la vie c'est

Keep growing, mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Life is short and I don't want to let pass by those desires and feelings I have. I want to give back to life just as so many others have given to me.

Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt

Sarcastique, Sympa, Neuneu

A la télévision, je regarde

Actualités, Drames, Films, Sports

Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours

Action, Science-fiction, Comédies, Drames, Animation

Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est

Rock, Classique, Blues, Jazz, Latino, New age, Reggae, Folk

Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est

Littérature classique, Fictions, Histoire, Humour, Mystères, Science-fiction, Sports, Erotique

Mon idée du fun

Playing card or board games with friends and teasing each other and laughing. Going on a picnic at the beach or in the park and playing frizz bee. Going out for a nice dinner date followed by a great foreign film. Hanging out on a rainy day and having a stimulating discussion with my girlfriend. Going for a drive in the Sonoma County back roads and stopping for a bite at a roadside cafe. Taking a trip to anywhere with a woman I love.

Que trouvez-vous attirant?

Bon sens, Séduction, Spontanéité, Sensibilité, Empathie, Humour, Beauté, Délicatesse, Intelligence

Que recherchez-vous?

A woman who is curious and expressive. A woman who is comfortable in her own skin and who likes sharing any experiences we create together. A woman who likes to speak her mind about her feelings and desires. A woman who likes her sexuality and enjoys sharing it. A woman who enjoys touching and kissing. A woman who wants to feel sexual joy and pleasure and also enjoys giving the same.

Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?

Vrai‧e ami‧e, Relation intime, Engagement